ZarahereBy now everybody knows (In my Phaedra Parks voice) that I absolutely love being a Seasoned Woman!!! It really does feel good to love yourself, have confidence and know what and who you want in your life. One of the things I have learned from being seasoned is the way you carry yourself is important! Growing up my mother ALWAYS emphasized that as a woman you should carry yourself a certain way. As a child I never quite understood what that meant but now I understand completely.
The way you look, speak, treat other people makes up the way you carry yourself. I think the way we look is very important whether we want to admit it or not. It is not how other people should define us but our image is what gets us through the door whether its business or personal. And I am not talking about beauty. I am talking about class. Are you neat and clean? Are your clothes ironed and pockets tucked into your jeans (my pet peeve with my kids!)? Is your hair combed or out of place? Are your fingernails dirty? Do you smile or frown? All of these are things people see and make a determination as to whether they want to get to know you better.
Another thing which may be a touchy subject for the ladies is are you showing too much? I’m not talking about a little cleavage here or there or wearing a crop top. I’m talking about the barely there painted on dress. Don’t be shamed because I have done it but now I understand that leaving something to the imagination is way sexier than baring it all. Some celebrities and even influencers think it’s cute to show us everything they’re working with, but I am here to tell you it is not. Leave that for your man, woman or whoever you are dating in 2018. I’ll tell you another thing Sallie has said. If I can already see your whole city, state and country- why would I want to travel there anymore?
That was one of the main reasons I chose this dress as my Valentines look. I am almost completely covered but I am still SEXY (If I do say so myself). This dress is midi length which I love and has an open knit fabric which has a slip underneath but still shows just enough skin (size down for a more form fitting look cause the dress has a nice stretch). I don’t have to worry about tugging and pulling a dress down, scared I’m going to show all my mama blessed me with. I don’t have to think about a boob popping out or sliding up under my bra (Yes that has happened smh). I am still SEXY and SEASONED without giving everybody a peep show.
Don’t be scared, tell me how you really feel about women showing a lot of skin? Do you agree with what I said or think I’m too old school?
I pray you have an awesome Valentine’s Day whether you or boo’d up or single and satisfied. Remember to love yourself first because that’s how people will love you in return!
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Dang lady you look stunning!! You keep doing it!! U look so glamorous and hottttt in this red dress. I totally agree that u can look sexy with the right clothes and without showing everything, especially if someone has a gorgeous shape like you do. 😉 I gotta say you look incredible and that last picture is outta this world!! What a beautiful smile!!! Enjoy your day and thanks for brightening mine! x x x
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Thank you Chris!!!
You are right! It’s ok to feel and look sexy without everything hanging out of your clothes. I am here for some cleavage or some leg action, even a crop top. It’s when I start to see things that only your mother and your man should see is when I say “no ma’am”. 😩😂😂Especially where some of the latest trend where women are showing their aeriolas, cheeks🍑. You however look amazing! Continue to be an example of fine wine getting better with time❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
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Girl yes!!! I’m like I don’t wanna see all that!!! Lol! Thank you sis!
It is one thing to carry yourself, it’s another to do it as a female. Do you break social norms or love yourself enough to do what you’re comfortable in. Love your post tho and that red 👀😻.